Love they say is a beautiful thing, ow yeah! It sure is. But
there is nothing like meeting the ‘One’.
You see relationships are selfish. You want certain qualities
in your man and a man want certain qualities in his woman. When you find the
woman with all the qualities you desire, you want the woman by all means. She is
the one for you and in fact, you start hearing God’s voice in that moment, even
if you have never heard it before. All of a sudden, the scripture “He who
findeth a wife findeth a good thing” is stuck on your mind. She is
your wife and you must have her by all means.
Not so fast man, stop and think what does this woman want? And
am I what she wants? that should be the ultimate question. If you are not what she wants, then your gifts and romantic gestures will fall to ground.
You see, two cannot walk together unless they agree (Amos
3:3). Except for those rare cases where there is an attraction, an agreement
and a union.
The strength of a relationship is born from your ability to
be selfless. A time when it is no longer about what is good for you but what is
good for both of you. Love is about sacrifice. John 3:16 says “for God
so loved the world that he gave…”
It is so beautiful to be in love especially a love that is
mutual, one that joins you and your partner till you are one. You cannot eat
without thinking if your spouse has eaten, that kind of love that will keep you
faithful to your spouse and will make you share everything together. There is
no ‘you and I’ in a marriage but ‘us’. (Ephesians
5:31).
So get your facts straight and evaluate your decisions with
the word of God. Remember God is against divorce so make sure you can spend
forever with that lady or that man before you talk about Marriage. The wedding ceremony is all drama and publicity, think about the life after the wedding, the new life that is about you and your spouse.
God bless.
#Charmant
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